Wednesday, March 21, 2012

The importance of co operation in competition

All great leaders of the world believe that if you want to succeed, you should help those around you, grow.

Today I would like to share a story about success.

There was a farmer who grew superior quality and award-winning corn.
Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won honor and
prizes.


One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learnt something
interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the
farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors'.


"How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors
when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the
reporter asked.


"Why sir, "said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen
from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my
neighbors grow inferior, sub-standard and poor quality corn,
cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am
to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors grow good corn."


The farmer gave a superb insight into the connectedness of life. His
corn cannot improve unless his neighbor's corn also improves. So it is
in the other dimensions! Those who choose to be at harmony must help
their neighbors and colleagues to be at peace... Those who choose to
live well must help others to live well. The value of a life is measured
by the lives it touches.


SUCCESS DOES NOT HAPPEN IN ISOLATION. IT IS VERY OFTEN A PARTICIPATIVE
AND COLLECTIVE PROCESS.


So share the good practices, ideas, new learnings with your family, team
members, neighbors. All the Successes is a Team Work of a family, group,
enterprise, corporation... Infact TEAM as an acronym of letters T,E,A,M
T Together
E Everyone
A Achieves
M More

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

CORRUPTION – ARE WE ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT?


Corruption – the word has been rocking the nation in the recent times more than it has done in the past. But the fact remains that it has been there in the society even before we actually got on the streets, and fighting it became a household discussion. Right from the times of ‘Shree420’ and ‘Anari’ to ‘Roti, Kapda aur Makaan’ to the more recent ‘Rang de Basanti’ and ‘Aarakshan’ , it has only multiplied in its magnitude and proportions so much so that it has gained public acceptance. And owing to the external locus of control that we Indians are known to have –blame it on the system.

While the Oxford dictionary defines it as an irregular alteration of the text, language etc., I understand it as having altered meaning of the same law for different people at different times. That’s what we see happening in public life – a behaviour is punishable if enacted by a ‘mere mortal’ but ‘no big deal’ when committed by the more influential and people in positions of power. In very simple words – when one is not doing one’s duty honestly and begins to believe that they are doing a favour and therefore need to be compensated for it, that’s corruption.

Do we see an end to it in the near future – the answer is a big NO.

I’ve my reasons for saying so – it cannot go because we’ll not let it go. Surprised ? But that’s true. Its so deeply ingrained in our psyches and our social fabric that at least in a 100 years to come – it is there to stay.

If we consider the psychological dynamics of the phenomenon we would realize that it serves a potent role in the lives of people. It starts with the assumption that some people are more privileged than others and that everyone is not equal. There are systems that relegate more power and prestige to some people by virtue of their sex, religion, caste and a number of fractions created for convenience of having control over certain segments of the society. Such power brings with it a social hypocrisy that bestows on them more privileges and the right to dictate terms at the cost of the fundamental rights of that group.

Unfortunately this happens not only at the national, regional and community level – it happens in families. Family the smallest and the most basic unit of a society – which is responsible for the formation of social and national character is at the seat of corruption. Families fail to give equal rights to certain members in the name of hierarchy, family honour and/or issues of security and protection – suppressing the human rights. Rights and duties are unequally distributed in the favor of the more powerful – who get to enjoy all the rights and duties are delegated to the not- so-powerful.

The ancient texts have clearly laid down the rules for the people in authority positions and the protector or as we shall call the head of the organization in modern times – the leader – to lead by example. Leadership is about guarding the interest of the protected and about motivating them for the efficient execution of the system. Family being a primary organization, the head of the family needs to protect and appreciate the interests and safeguard the dignity of the dependents. When families begin to give equal opportunities and rights to all its members irrespective of the place in the hierarchy and various other factors, it will start to show in the social fabric and then reflect on the national front. When the law applies to all with rather more stringent consequences for the people in authority, then we will succeed in bringing about a corruption free society.

So, on this women’s day I would appeal to all women – the bearers and rearers of the future generation – teach your children to be more just, more patient and tolerant of the rights of others. Feel more empowered and teach your children to be independent, teach them to be considerate and teach them to take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings and actions.